Don't Mess with God's Children
Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as theseā (Matthew 19:4).
Historically, children were considered the property of their families ā typically headed and ruled by fathers. Consequently, parents could mistreat, neglect, and abuse their children, because patriarchal society didnāt acknowledge children as having any worth nor rights. Kids were "to be seen but not heard."
Accordingly, when the little children were brought to Jesus, his apostles shoved them out of the way. Imagine how they might have scolded them:
Shh! Heās speaking. Go away! Donāt bother the Master.
Think about that, because that changes everything!
The miracle of life belongs to God; therefore, the Creator has the rights to the created.
Instead, Jesus demonstrates how weāre to treat children by taking a child into his own arms and blessing it.
Thatās also what Jesus expects us to do ā to welcome, embrace and bless his children.
Moreover, Jesus commands that we do not āhinderā his children.
According to The Macmillan Dictionary online, to hinder means: to stop someone from making progress or developing.1
Numerous studies on the effects of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACES) document the connection between the stress of childhood adversity and negative physical and mental health outcomes in adulthood. Stress and/or trauma experienced in early childhood can lead to a variety of problems in later life including both physically and mentally.2
Mistreating children hinders their ability to develop into emotionally and physically healthy adults. As a pediatric nurse and professional psychologist who has worked with abused and neglected children, I've witnessed this first hand.
But Jesus doesnāt just stop there. He goes on to warn us of the judgment in store for us if we harm his children:
Well, you better get in touch with your own inner child and reconnect with your feelings from childhood, or youāre not even going to enter his kingdom at all -- he says! He repeated that twice just in case you missed it the first time.
Letās be clear. The ākingdomā is a big deal to Jesus, because he mentions it at least 106 times in the gospels (NIV version).
Itās his shtick!
Simply stated: the kingdom signifies the reign or rule of God as King.
Jesus often talked about the kingdom in parables or metaphors in order to make a comparison. The kingdom of God is like a hidden treasure in a field (Matthew 13:44), like a merchant in search of fine pearls (Matthew 13:45-46), like a master of a house (Matthew 13:52), like a grain of mustard seed (Matthew 13:31-32), like a fishermanās net thrown into the sea (Matthew 13:47-50), etc.
Significantly here, Jesus declares that the kingdom of God belongs to children. Heās not only making a comparison; heās stating a fact about ownership.
Unlike the other hypothetical stories that Jesus often told to illustrate a point, Jesus actually brings children up close to himself to demonstrate their significance to him. The presence of these children distinguishes these incidents from other parables where he merely uses the word ālikeā to make a hypothetical comparison. Jesus must definitely have something essential to say about children.
Jesus uses a child to illustrate what must be done to enter his Fatherās kingdom and enjoy His rule in your life: you must become like children. You must embrace your own childlike heart to empathize a childās point of view, or youāll never enter Godās kingdom. Thatās right! You better squat down to a childās eye level and view the world from a childās eyes or you might completely miss what Jesus is talking about in all the Gospels. For starters, their "low-level" view makes you feel very small, even humble!
Why is this so difficult for us adults to do?
Most likely itās because you were hurt in some emotional or physical way in your own childhood, and it now feels too vulnerable āto become like little childrenā again. However, Father God longs to heal that, too, if you will only trust Him and once again become vulnerable to Him like a child.
Moreover, Jesus further explains that whoever welcomes a little child welcomes him as well (Matthew 18:5), and whatever you do for the least valued you also do to him (Matthew 25:40). Thatās why āgreatnessā in Godās kingdom is measured by how you treat the least and the marginalized in society.
And yet, children are too often ignored, shamed and punished. Theyāre often discounted and considered less important than adults.
Unfortunately, the significance of children to Jesus has also been dismissed or overlooked by male preachers who donāt seem to realize that Jesus was actually affirming the intrinsic value of children and not merely using them as a prop to illustrate religious themes. What he states was revolutionary! In ancient Greece and Rome, children were considered nonpersons, so it wouldn't have made sense to his followers for Jesus to merely use children as a teaching example. Jesus' parables rely on metaphors that were familiar to their daily life. The value of children, however, was not known to them.
Nonetheless, Jesus emphatically declares the significance and worth of children, which was radical then -- as now.
How can we claim to value children when
If America is to be truly āgreatā, we will need to amend our attitude and treatment of all Godās children.
Shh! Heās speaking. Go away! Donāt bother the Master.
When Jesus saw this, he was outraged. He said to them, āLet the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.ā And he took the children in his arms, placed his hands on them and blessed them (Mark 10:13-16 NIV).Regardless of how society may value or how parents may treat children, Jesus demonstrates clearly that children are of primary importance to him. Jesus values children, because theyāre his children. Thatās right, children belong to God ā not to their parents nor to society.
Think about that, because that changes everything!
The miracle of life belongs to God; therefore, the Creator has the rights to the created.
āFor You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my motherās wombā (Psalm 139:13).
āBut now, this is what the Lord says, He who created you, Jacob, He who formed you, Israel: āDo not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mineā (Isiah 43:1).Children are formed by God; they belong to Him. Since children belong to God then we donāt have the right to control them nor to mistreat them.
Instead, Jesus demonstrates how weāre to treat children by taking a child into his own arms and blessing it.
Thatās also what Jesus expects us to do ā to welcome, embrace and bless his children.
Moreover, Jesus commands that we do not āhinderā his children.
According to The Macmillan Dictionary online, to hinder means: to stop someone from making progress or developing.1
Numerous studies on the effects of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACES) document the connection between the stress of childhood adversity and negative physical and mental health outcomes in adulthood. Stress and/or trauma experienced in early childhood can lead to a variety of problems in later life including both physically and mentally.2
Mistreating children hinders their ability to develop into emotionally and physically healthy adults. As a pediatric nurse and professional psychologist who has worked with abused and neglected children, I've witnessed this first hand.
But Jesus doesnāt just stop there. He goes on to warn us of the judgment in store for us if we harm his children:
At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, "Who is greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" He called a little child and had him stand among them. Then he said to them, "I can guarantee this truth: Unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever becomes like this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes a child like this in my name welcomes me. These little ones believe in me. It would be best for the person who causes one of them to lose faith to be drowned in the sea with a large stone hung around his neck (Matthew 18: 1-6, Mark 9:36-37).Whoa! Those are some of the harshest words Jesus ever uses. Listen up! Jesus means business when he speaks in hyperbole like this. Donāt mess with his children or else! Theyāre treasured by God, because they reflect Him to the world.
āSee that you do not despise one of these little ones. For I tell you that in heaven their angels always see the face of my Father who is in heaven" (Matthew 18:10).How special is that? Donāt you wish you could always see Godās face?
Letās be clear. The ākingdomā is a big deal to Jesus, because he mentions it at least 106 times in the gospels (NIV version).
Itās his shtick!
Simply stated: the kingdom signifies the reign or rule of God as King.
Jesus often talked about the kingdom in parables or metaphors in order to make a comparison. The kingdom of God is like a hidden treasure in a field (Matthew 13:44), like a merchant in search of fine pearls (Matthew 13:45-46), like a master of a house (Matthew 13:52), like a grain of mustard seed (Matthew 13:31-32), like a fishermanās net thrown into the sea (Matthew 13:47-50), etc.
Significantly here, Jesus declares that the kingdom of God belongs to children. Heās not only making a comparison; heās stating a fact about ownership.
Unlike the other hypothetical stories that Jesus often told to illustrate a point, Jesus actually brings children up close to himself to demonstrate their significance to him. The presence of these children distinguishes these incidents from other parables where he merely uses the word ālikeā to make a hypothetical comparison. Jesus must definitely have something essential to say about children.
Jesus uses a child to illustrate what must be done to enter his Fatherās kingdom and enjoy His rule in your life: you must become like children. You must embrace your own childlike heart to empathize a childās point of view, or youāll never enter Godās kingdom. Thatās right! You better squat down to a childās eye level and view the world from a childās eyes or you might completely miss what Jesus is talking about in all the Gospels. For starters, their "low-level" view makes you feel very small, even humble!
Why is this so difficult for us adults to do?
Most likely itās because you were hurt in some emotional or physical way in your own childhood, and it now feels too vulnerable āto become like little childrenā again. However, Father God longs to heal that, too, if you will only trust Him and once again become vulnerable to Him like a child.
Moreover, Jesus further explains that whoever welcomes a little child welcomes him as well (Matthew 18:5), and whatever you do for the least valued you also do to him (Matthew 25:40). Thatās why āgreatnessā in Godās kingdom is measured by how you treat the least and the marginalized in society.
And yet, children are too often ignored, shamed and punished. Theyāre often discounted and considered less important than adults.
Unfortunately, the significance of children to Jesus has also been dismissed or overlooked by male preachers who donāt seem to realize that Jesus was actually affirming the intrinsic value of children and not merely using them as a prop to illustrate religious themes. What he states was revolutionary! In ancient Greece and Rome, children were considered nonpersons, so it wouldn't have made sense to his followers for Jesus to merely use children as a teaching example. Jesus' parables rely on metaphors that were familiar to their daily life. The value of children, however, was not known to them.
Nonetheless, Jesus emphatically declares the significance and worth of children, which was radical then -- as now.
How can we claim to value children when
- corporal punishment is still acceptable in our country?
- active shooter drills are the norm in schools, because we refuse to enact gun control laws?
- we separate them from them from their immigrant parents at the border and lock them in cages or encampment centers -- even when we later misplace them and refuse to return them to their parents?
If America is to be truly āgreatā, we will need to amend our attitude and treatment of all Godās children.
1. Macmillan Dictionary
https://www.macmillandictionary.com/us/dictionary/american/hinder
2. Adverse Childhood Experiences Study
https://www.macmillandictionary.com/us/dictionary/american/hinder
2. Adverse Childhood Experiences Study
3. Speech by President Nelson Mandela at the launch of the Nelson Mandela Children's Fund, 08 May 1995.
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